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dancerjodi ([personal profile] dancerjodi) wrote2004-12-27 11:33 am
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Oh yeah,

My Mom's uncle died on Thursday - we went to the wake yesterday afternoon and the funeral was this morning. I wasn't very close to him, and he was sick with Hospice (so this isn't unexpected). Still, its weird that the funny old guy that used to tease the kids at Christmas Eve by taking his teeth out and calling everyone "droopy drawers" is gone. He was a WW2 Veteran and his "Tin Can Man" cap was with him in the coffin (aparently he served on a destroyer). Here's the obit: http://www.dailynewstranscript.com/obituaries/view.bg?articleid=47511

My Dad's uncle also died. I wouldn't know him if I ran into him anywhere, and just remember Gram making reference to him. He also had a wake yesterday and a burial this morning. I can't even remember his name right now (Gram was one of 19, and I can't keep them all straight).

Gram herself is in the hospital. She was having problems breathing over the weekend and was taken to a local hospital near my aunt's place in Webster (where she was spending Christmas). They say her heart is OK, and she may have emphysema. Of course, my parents didn't tell me this (assuming I knew, somehow) and don't know/care about the details of the admission.

[identity profile] mizdarkgirl.livejournal.com 2004-12-27 09:15 am (UTC)(link)
It's tough when the "adults" start getting old. I have had a tough time articulating that aspect of my Christmas so it remains unwritten.

I am glad that your grams was with someone that recognized the need for hospitalization give her reluctanc to addressing health issues on her own.

My thoughts are with you and your family.

Condolences

[identity profile] sanguineempathy.livejournal.com 2004-12-27 09:20 am (UTC)(link)
For you and your familiy's losses. Even if you didn't know them very well - I still think you feel a void in the life of the family.

I have an Uncle (Primo) that flips his false teeth around in his mouth at the kids. :-/ Uncles are weird.

Hope everything works out for the best with your Grans. Illness is hard enough without the additional family drama added in :( *hugs*

[identity profile] dionysios.livejournal.com 2004-12-27 09:41 am (UTC)(link)
Condolences on your family.

It really bugs me when parents don't tell us things that we should know. Point one - diseases can be hereditary. I should know if my dad had diabetes (he does, but my mom still hasn't told me this). Point two - I'm 33 years old. I can handle it. Really.

I think the lesson is to treat your kids like adults when they reach that state.

aparently he served on a destroyer

Yup, tin cans are destroyers.

[identity profile] kahoki.livejournal.com 2004-12-27 03:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry to hear of your families recent losses. Your uncle definatley sounds like a product of his generation, from his antics with the kids, retirement from Raytheon, and recognition of his service on destroyers during WW II, which was one of the most combat oriented ships to serve on, facing the axis on land, sea, and air.

[identity profile] catling.livejournal.com 2004-12-28 07:44 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry to hear about the family deaths and illnesses.