Just a note I don't want to make you feel like I'm stalking your posts.
I've noticed you have a remarkable ability to stand firm in your convictions but to do so without depriving another of their dignity and self respect.That's an amazing talent,whether it is an inborn trait(I'm a genealogist and I am amazed by how much we acquire from our ancestry) or if you had to do the grunt work to get it;it nevertheless carries a sense of inner grace all to rare these days.Your family and friends must be blessed by your being in their lives.
All the best and have a happy life!
Elspeth