Exactly.
I was thinking about it. I moved to Boston and gave up tons of money (to pay in rent) but I am infinitely happier being closer to my friends and culture and all that. I just *love* my life these days instead of just being contented with it.

So, when I buy a house, I think I *will* sacrifice some needs (like the desire to own a huge beautiful victorian) for the desire to be close to my friends & the city. After all, I can always change my mind, sell it for a huge amount of money, and move to the country if I want to.