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dancerjodi ([personal profile] dancerjodi) wrote2012-01-02 04:38 pm

"This shit is real"

The subject is what Brian said, as he installed our car seat base (Graco Snugride 30) into my back seat. Andrew and Heather so graciously passed their's to us (not expired and never in a car accident). The hospital bag is being packed and just needs a couple more items until I put it in the trunk until whenever we'll need it. I can't believe that we are at this stage of the journey.

Putting my feet up has helped a good deal with my swelling. I just need to keep the momentum of this. Work days are the hardest, since I go a huge chunk of time with my feet under my desk. Having a couple of long holiday weekends in a row has been very helpful in this way. I only have 2 more work weeks to go anyway. Nuts.

We had a nice New Year's weekend, with some productivity, some friends and some relaxation. I'm hoping to get out and see family next weekend if things still haven't started up with labor (since they are all an hour away now). It is definitely odd that we're in Waltham and that they are all within a 15 minute drive of each other in Southern, NH. We're the city folks and they are the country folks. There have been such changes in our lives over the last few years.

I took some of the holiday decorations down today and they are on the dining room table, waiting to make their way to the attic. The tree, our front hallway banister and front porch are all that's left to disassemble, but I like enjoying the lights so for now I'm content to be lazy. I just want them all put away before we have our baby.

We went to Trader Joe's today to pick up groceries and some frozen/easy things to stockpile for post delivery. We had bulk-cooked a lot already (turkey soup, chili, a couple of shephard's pies, beef stew) and have added to that pile lasagna, veggie burgers, burritos, pizzas and some things I'm forgetting. Having Sharma's convenience store right across the street could not be more helpful (he even delivers now), and then there is always Pea Pod and take out. It isn't like we will never leave the house again, but I like setting things up so that we don't need to in those first few weeks unless we want to.

Folks have asked us about future plans: when will we troop next, what is Brian's next prop project, when will I go back to the dance studio, will we take the baby to Star Wars Celebration, etc. We're both content to just figure it out later as we adapt to our new life. It's funny to see people's insistence that we plan things now now now. This pregnancy has made me less of a control freak about my own life (which was necessary). It is interesting to see our relaxed method make *other people* somewhat uncomfortable. :)

Considering the edema in my legs, weird autoimmune reaction rash on my extremities, recent return of sinus craziness (rhinitis of pregnancy) and increasing difficulty to get my big belly and butt off of the loveseat (where I hang out to keep my feet up and sleep) I am feeling a lot better than I expected to at this point. I'm ready to be through with this experience, but also not ready enough to have my acupuncturist start moving things along for me (as of 38 weeks aka this coming Wednesday, she said it would be appropriate to do that so I desired). I'm trying to just relish the quiet time before things are turned upside down. So apropos that we are doing this right as the new year begins!
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[personal profile] nepenthedreams 2012-01-03 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, don't rush to get back to normal life. It will all come back in time.
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[personal profile] dawntreader 2012-01-03 05:09 pm (UTC)(link)
when i had hurt my knee, a lady gave me one of those weird 'backless chair' things to put my knee up on to help with swelling. it wasn't much, but it was some relief. is there any way you could elevate your legs at work under your desk? or you just can't get them high enough?

it would be amusing to have your feet up on your desk being as pregnant as you are. just don't use a rolling chair. ;)

[identity profile] dancer.livejournal.com 2012-01-03 06:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I do have a foot rest under my desk, but if they aren't above my heart it doesn't make a difference.

[identity profile] celiskywalker.livejournal.com 2012-01-04 06:04 pm (UTC)(link)
My mother-in-law is someone who must have a plan, and gets really antzy if you don't have one (and often will start to try to plan for you) because she thinks things can't just be solved as they come up. But my brother-in-law seems to be doing just fine with his 6 month old playing things by ear as he finds out how his son is comfortable with and they're comfortable with. I think she's finally getting used to it, so if she can get used to his relaxed attitude, your friends/family can get used to yours too :-)