dancerjodi: (Xmas)
2008-12-24 09:46 am

Dance!

I did get to pick up my plate this morning to put on the new car, but my brain was swimming with the craziness of the last week all over for both myself and others (my parents moving, my sister's dog biting the UPS guy and her being 300 months pregnant, a friend who got stented yesterday, another friend's loneliness and despair, this crazy storm and all of the people with no power, and people dealing with auto accidents).

But then this made me tear up with joy. You absolutely must listen to this:
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=98674104&ft=1&f=1051

Happy Holidays! :)
dancerjodi: (Default)
2008-10-07 11:39 am
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Life

This is the accident http://www.dailynewstribune.com/state/x1272962648/Driver-killed-in-morning-crash-on-Route-128 that I was avoiding, taking the scenic and historic backroads of Lexington to work this morning.

So sad, though I have to wonder how fast this person was going and why they weren't wearing their seatbelt.

Why are we always in such a rush? Its not worth it.

These stories remind me of the time I spent in Catholic School. Whenever we'd hear a siren outside, no matter who the teacher, we'd stop what we were doing and have a moment of silence to pray for whoever it was on the other end of that noise. Its a sweet sentiment that I still think of to this day when I hear sirens, all of these years later.
dancerjodi: (Garden)
2008-07-10 09:13 am
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Nick Ring

The 501st/Rebel Legion has lost one of its own over last weekend. Nick Ring was only 22 years old and died from complications during a routine day-surgery to repair his jaw (both he and his twin brother have 'open bite', and the surgery was to repair it).

I guess while in surgery Nick had a heart attack, his lungs collapsed, and they induced a coma to try and save him. His lungs collapsed again while in the coma and they lost him. 22 years old!

I didn't know Nick well, but had met he and his twin brother Graeme at Dragoncon in our first year at the 501st Hooter's Dinner. Each year I looked forward to seeing their crazy costumes, including Mario and Luigi and Nick's rendition of Goro of the Japanese Garrison. Brian's been closer to them than I given his involvement on The Dented Helmet board (he and Graeme have actually shared Boba parts in the past). We got the call on Saturday while sitting around the house and Brian was just in a bit of shock for a while on the couch. One minute someone is there and the next they are gone, in an instant.

Members of the 501st are raising a pint to him in Ontario tomorrow night with many folks making the journey to support Graeme. Many troopers are participating in a massive dedication to him on Saturday (in armor) at his college. The family is having a memorial service for him a week from Saturday http://www.ospreyobituaries.com/sitepages/obituary.asp?oId=250421&source=St.%20Catharines%20Standard . Troopers across the globe are collecting action figures to send to the college ceremony so that they can be distributed amongst the crowd. Graeme said that his brother would like to know that everyone had a piece of Star Wars there and would love to see so many folks in armor in his honor.

Its jarring when something happens to someone so young and so bright. It serves to remind you that you shouldn't waste any second you have on this earth. It also goes to show just how amazing people can be and how supportive so many complete strangers can be when they mobilize to celebrate the spirit of one small life. Its extremely touching to be a part of this world-wide family and to see again the kind of things that we can do if we only put our minds and our efforts to it. Imagine if folks were this motivated and this supportive of others all the time, what we could do?!
dancerjodi: (Garden)
2008-07-08 03:05 pm
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Peace

I've been reading the Cage Free Family Blog and I look forward to the sporadic updates as they continue with their adventure. I'm not looking to do anything as far as going off grid, but its been inspiring to read of one family's efforts to do so (as well as blogs of other readers commenting with their own blog urls). As I try and scale down the stuff and scale up the love, friendship and experiences in my life, reading about these folks' bare-bones approach to things is thought provoking.

Their experience at The Gathering (a big hippie-type camp out) turned violent. More details are coming of course, but here's a taste of it:
http://www.cagefreefamily.com/2008/07/fear-and-terror-at-gathering.html

I hope to learn more about this and hope that the local media, ACLU and other organizations get more information out there. People are so scared of the strange that they are very quick to attack. Hopefully some coverage of these events may help folks stop and think before reacting like this.
dancerjodi: (Dance)
2008-06-03 09:15 am
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Birthdays

Mo posted this in her LJ and I think its perfect:
"I'm old enough that I almost resent this day that I feel like I'm supposed to honor in some way."

I believe that we should make EVERY DAY special for ourselves. This is why I don't get into celebrating birthdays or valentine's day or other similar holidays. If you wake up in the morning you should be making the best out of your day, because you don't know if you'll be here tomorrow.

People don't seem to get that I feel this way, despite me saying it each year. Those of you that know me well should also know that I mean what I say (and say what I mean). Please don't insist that I make a big deal about my birthday. I'm not anti-birthday but I'm anti 'big deal' and many of you are trying to make a big deal about this.

If you must do something please consider making a donation to http://www.straypetsinneed.info/ . I'm very fortunate to have more than enough things in my life, and I prefer company and activities to "stuff".

You are free to do what you would like with your own birthdays, so please let me do what I would like to with mine. Brian and I will be spending the day together and with family. I'm hoping that the weather cooperates and we can head to the beach, but we shall see! :)
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2008-03-18 12:45 pm
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Walden and Civil Disobedience

I've finally finished reading Thoreau's Walden (yeah, its about time). I never ended up having to read it in high school (though I did read BF Skinner's Walden Two about Psychology's Behaviorism). I've always wanted to read the original but never got around to it. Dad bought me a copy for Christmas a few years ago and though its taken a while, I'm glad I finally trudged through it.

Why the Walden experiment?
"I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, to discover that I had not lived. I did not wish to live what was not life, living is so dear; nor did I wish to practice resignation, unless it was quite necessary. I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life, to live so sturdily and Spartan-like as to put to rout all that was not life, to cut a broad swath and shave close, to drive life into a corner, and reduce it to its lowest terms, and, if it proved to be mean, why then to get the whole and genuine meanness of it, and publish its meanness to the world; or if it were sublime, to know it by experience, and to be able to give a true account of it".

On 'stuff' making us word hard for things we don't really need:
"But the only true America is that country where you are at liberty to pursue such a mode of life as may enable you to do without these, and where the state does not endeavor to compel you to sustain the slavery and war and other superfluous expenses which directly or indirectly result from the use of such things".

On personal freedoms (this is why Dad gave me the book; he's always been keen on the 'different drummer' philosophy:
"Why should we be in such desperate haste to succeed and in such desperate enterprises? If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer? Let him step to the music which he hears, however measured or far away. It is not important that he should mature as soon as an apple tree or an oak. Shall he turn his spring into summer? If the condition of things which we were made for is not yet, what were any reality which we can substitute? We will not be shipwrecked in a vain reality".

From Civil Disobedience (an addendum to my book):
"Must the citizen ever for a moment, or in the least degree, resign his conscience to the legislator? Why has every man a conscience then? I think that we should be men first, and subjects afterward. It is not desirable to cultivate a respect for the law, so much as for the right. The only obligation which I have a right to assume is to do at any time what I think right."

Though it was tough for me to get through this book reading in spurts here or there I'm glad I finally did it. I'm not ready to quit my job, ditch my house and run off to the woods, but it definitely is inspirational in terms of thinking about what I really do love and what I really do want (versus what's the norm and/or what's easy to fall into). His 'Simplify, Simplify' definitely rings true in today's age of the http://www.scuppie.com/ .

Next up will be something fluffy, like one of the Dresden Files books . . .
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2001-03-16 08:40 am
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Dear Sister, Mother, Midwife, Friend, Woman . . . Imagine a Woman

Imagine a woman who believes it is right and good she is a woman. A woman who honors her experience and tells her stories. Who refuses to carry the sins of others within her body and life.

Imagine a woman who trusts and respects herself. A woman who listens to her needs and desires. Who meets them with tenderness and grace.

Imagine a woman who has acknowledged the past's influence on the present. A woman who has walked through her past. Who has healed into the present.

Imagine a woman who authors her own life. A woman who exerts, initiates and moves on her own behalf. Who refuses to surrender except to her truest self and wisest voice.

Imagine a woman who names her own gods. A woman who imagines the divine in her image and likeness. Who designs a personal spirituality to inform her daily life.

Imagine a woman in love with her body. A woman who believes her body is enough, just as it is. Who celebrates her body's rhythms and cycles as an exquisite resource.

Imagine a woman who honors the body of the goddess in her changing body. A woman who celebrates the accumulation of her years and her wisdom. Who refuses to use her precious life energy disguising the changes in her body and her life.

Imagine a woman who values the women in her life. A woman who sits in circles of women. Who is reminded of the truth about herself when she forgets.

Imagine yourself as this woman.

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I'm not sure who wrote this - one of the teachers of my belly dancing class was given this on last Thursday which was International Women's Day. She read it out loud to our class last week and gave us copies of it last night.