I'm so sorry for your loss. I do understand your feelings about it. My grandfather (who lived to be 94) was very similar. He also died when my grandmother died in 97. He let go and slowly deteriorated until his mind left and he passed soon after. Its so hard to loose someone you're close to, but in some ways you've probably already mostly mourned her loss.
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Date: 2008-11-03 04:48 pm (UTC)